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I love my art/work, circles, avoiding clothing, asking detail-oriented questions, croissants, Robert Heinlein, and staring

at the moon.

I’m a sex-positive content creator, artist and educator based in Los Angeles. 

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Need someone to help you feel comfortable while we capture your creative parts? This is my specialty.

 

Film school at USC led to producing and directing online content for dating coaches. This led to studying psychology and the social patterns that drive people, which led to connected, embodied portrait sessions with my photography clients and (first separately, years later, combined) sexsplorations...which led me down a very deep, sexy research rabbit hole.

My topics of obsession?

Human connection, creativity and communication, the physical, emotional and social components of sex, expression of personal creative genius, health education, polyamory, kink, and fetish communities, relationships: hetero dating "norms," relationship escalator assumptions, queer relationships, alternative relationship models, healing arts, breath work, neuroscience, physical embodiment, erotic arts, the culturally appropriate and taboo use of sex in commerce, and storytelling in all forms.

Since 2018, I have been interviewing guests about their personal and/or professional lives on my podcast X Stories (fka Sex Stories) in an effort to invite sex-positive conversations that educate, celebrate and inspire pursuit of our desires, personal pleasure, conscious connection, and creative self-expression. 

I am a sharp pattern tracker keen on gathering story-based relational anec-data, and I use what I learn to ask questions that help clients clarify priorities in both personal and professional creative pursuits.

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If it’s legal, 

consensual, and you're into it,

I’m excited to hear about it.

I love learning what lights you up.

 

I love creating mutually beneficial inspiration loops.

 

And I love it when our bucket lists overlap in meaningful, relevant ways.

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Let desire drive you.

How do you want to spend our short time and energy on this planet?

 

I can help you figure it out.

 

And/or I can use my skills as a director, photographer and camerababe to help you realize your next creative vision.

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I have been a freelance artist my entire adult life, and am committed to a joy-based approach to everything I do.

 

My educational mission is coupled with a creative lust to expand mainstream media to include eroticism as a normal and healthy part of being human.

Beyond podcasting, my professional creative background includes photography, acting, producing, writing, directing, painting, illustration, and design.

 

I highly value play, curiosity and a willingness to set ego aside, whether I am supporting a client in a creative breakthrough or capturing an orgasm on camera.

 

Clients include/have included: facebook, instagram, management teams, writers and writers rooms, authors, actors, painters, musicians, performers, content creators, and individuals, couples and moresomes looking to grow, connect, explore, and deepen their experience on this planet.

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Let’s enjoy our lives.

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Dating and relationship coaching can look a few different ways.

 

Whether working with an individual, couple or group, I serve as a support system for a specific creative project or goal.

 

Together we tailor a plan of action, built to shift as you grow, as you pursue your goals.

 

It’s fun.

Want to work with me?

See my services offerings and get in touch.

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