Why are you naked?

Short answer: Being naked brings me joy. Longer answer: I really squished most of my artist parts down until I was almost 27. I finished (what I vowed would be) my last-ever producing job, shaved my head, and bought a one-way ticket to South America, hoping to figure out what it would look like to overhaul my life into one I actually enjoyed living. It was on this literal and figurative journey that I started doing nude self-portraits – I actually can’t find any nude selfies of me pre-27. For two years, they were just for me; a project of self-love. I have since discovered: people care about hair a lot, a lot a lot, and will talk to me about my hair at great length no matter how short of long it is. In 2018, my good friend Kira declared that 80-year-old her was going to think 30-year-old-her is bangin’ just as I was approaching my 29th birthday, and I realized: I LOVE MY NUDES. It was time to share them.

Do you imagine the entire world as a backdrop for nude shoots?

If only there weren't people around who would be offended? Yes oh yes, yes, yes.

Are you an exhibitionist?

Nope. I'm too consent-oriented, and the thought of accidetnally forcing anyone to witness anything they didn't choose is the opposite of a turn-on for me.

Are you a nudist/naturist?

Opportunistically, sure, culturally, I don't know enough about either movement to say. I don't go out of my way to find nude-only spaces, but I do hope to visit more of them someday, it's just not my top priority (like, I'd rather make a movie than vacation on a nude beach somewhere, though if I could combine the two, that would be ideal). I just like being naked when it's comfy & allowed, and I think taking naked photos in places people don't normally find naked people is funny.

You're publicly nude...so are you a sex worker?

No, nudity ≠ sex work by default, though the fact that so many complete strangers operate with this mistaken assumption is, I would argue, all the more reason we need to understand nudity outside of sexual contexts. Just to be very very clear: I don't do porn. I don't cam. You cannot pay me to touch you in any way, shape or form. I DO, however, offer creative (sexual) consults, erotic fantasy writing, and nude or erotic photo shoots. Scroll up for details. If you've accidentally attempted to treat me like a free sex worker already, feel free to apologize via venmo/cashapp: @wyohlee / $wyohlee And duh, sex work should totall be legal, and one of my life goals is to replace "sex worker" with "sexual artist" a la Robert. A Heinlein.

Why do you wiggle every day?

The short answer:

• It's a literal body-positive movement that I find incredibly delightful and silly, especially in contrast to my sexier nudes
• It's a personal challenge for me to practice showing up publicly every day (live-streaming is actually *not* remotely comfy for me)
• It's my every day committment to my wiggle movie, which is 4 projects deep on my backburner, but will arrive in time
• Even on days that feel terrible, when I am exhausted, I can't help but smile

What do you mean, you "wiggle every day?"

I mean, I have been wiggling every day since my 30th birthday.

Why did you shave your head?

Because I'm extremely practical and don't care about hair that much.

Should I introduce myself with a dick pic?

Would you whip your cock out to say hello to a stranger you think is cute at the grocery store? Hopefully your answer is no, never. NO. Don't do it through the internet, either. Not to me, not to anyone, except maybe a sex worker who you are *already paying* and who has a clear invitation that they're open to that.

How SHOULD I talk to you, then?

Thank you so much for asking! Wyoh's Communication Guidelines: ​ Clear, explicit, literal communication is the kind I understand best. I typically get confused by euphemism, the opposite game humans seem so fond of, "you-" statements that are really sneaky "I-" statements, and meaningless phrases that do not contain clearly identifiable information or emotion. If I ask questions, it's because I am confused, not because I am judging you. I don't understand secret criticisms or secret mads, but they are the #1 reason I avoid people and parties. Speak only about your own experiences. We are here to celebrate and learn from one another's experiences and to noodle on human feelings, not to preach or teach or gossip or blame. ​​ Keep it sex-positive, curious, open-minded & safe. If it's legal and consensual, don't yuck someone else's yum, and certainly don't expect me to agree with you. Remain respectful. Make sure you've read this list, ask instead of assuming a boundary, and if one is offered to you, accept it kindly. I will not attack you, but I may offer a reframe – this is challenging for people if they forget that I'm just trying to make the world a more loving place. ​​ Keep your fantasies about me & anyone involved in my sphere to yourself, including podcast guests, my friends you think are hot, etc. And keep genitals covered. ​ Please err on the side of checking in, and practice using your sexy words if you have a question that isn't answered by the above guidelines. ​ Please do not mistake my love for sex and friendliness for a desire to have sex with *you.* Boundary pushing, rudeness, and agreement breaches result in blocking. I encourage all humans to spend their time and energy engaging with people and things they love.