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bucket list

How do I prioritize my desires? 


I spend my life learning about the things I love (sex, people, patterns, food), and when I’m inspired by a want-to-do, I try to remember to write it down.


When I discover something I want to do in the next year or find an item I love to do and want to do again, it makes the top-priority list. 


This list.


I’m working on a very long-term documentary project about desire, and it will be full of mini-projects along the way.


Many of the below items have been experienced, but my wish with this bucket list project is to commemorate the things I love.

I love to connect over honest, personal experience, and my hope in sharing is mutual joy and delicious learnings for us all—so we can lead happily-laid lives.


Want to collaborate?

See details below.

(this is, of course, a work in progress)

  • document this list in beautiful ways & share

  • helicopter tour over (anywhere)

  • over-the-water tropical cabana with a glass table so i can see fishies swim below

  • bolivian salt flats during the rainy season

  • antarctica

  • egypt & the pyramids

  • northern lights

  • art gallery show for my circles

  • fun hot educational sex/creativity ed content

  • play with all fun-looking sex toys & creativity tools (see list)

  • publish erotic memoirlette

  • publish SFW-passing sci fi fantasy novel

  • in-person tantra class

  • in-person dance class

  • in-person standup class

  • cliff side hot tub

  • soak in as many natural hot springs as possible (see list)

  • whole airplane sex party

  • play with fuck machines 

  • thigh sex to orgasm

  • spanking to orgasm

  • photograph and/or film frotting

  • do it in an elevator

  • head in a hot air balloon

  • in or on a plane (esp: in a fancy compartment)

  • on the beach

  • prioritize partners with chrematistophilia

  • play with a partner with foot fetish (shoe shopping, pedi, footie at dinner under the white linen tablecloth)

  • sleep next to a partner with somnophilia

  • serve worthy Top who loves sharing and reclaiming me

  • partner with (a) long-term collaborator(s) in work and/or life

  • prioritize partners with a massage fetish

  • giantess / micro / macro fetish photo & film shoot

  • bareback / "breeding"

  • cum in all holes on the same day

  • sex in the sun

  • sex in clothes

  • fuck with cold objects

  • double penetration w live cocks!!!!!

  • double vaginal penetration

  • play dress-up / cross-dress a partner

  • latex dress-up & play

  • naughty nurse role play

  • robot role play

  • alien role play

  • statue sex

  • vac bed

  • plastic wrap mummification

  • masochism

  • sensation play

  • sensory deprivation

  • triple penetration

  • receive a brand or body modification as a mark of "ownership"

  • anal sex

  • anal training

  • squirting

  • bimboification

  • biting

  • blindfolded sex

  • body inflation play: penis pump

  • body inflation play: pussy pump

  • breast and nipple torture

  • breast and nipple worship

  • breath play: risk-aware choking

  • chastity, denial and extended edging

  • collaring

  • degradation

  • dirty talk

  • discipline

  • electro play

  • face slapping

  • flogging

  • full body restraint

  • impact

  • rimming

  • spanking

  • strap-on penetration

  • orgasm control: teasing, edging, denial

  • master Jerk Off Instructions (JOI)

  • receive bite marks

  • receive marks from one type of impact at a time (spanks, paddle, flogger, cane, switch, lollipop) and document the various objects

  • give face sitting

  • receive face / throat fucking

  • give (tantric!) pussy worship

  • receive pussy worship

  • receive a gangbang

  • give (tantric!) cock worship

  • receive strap-on cock worship

  • consensual voyeurism

  • phone sex

  • learn to administer impact play (see list)

  • research legal full service sex work

  • research panty selling

  • take more rope / shibari / kinbaku classes

  • research sensation play

  • research sexual surrogacy

  • research stripping

  • find/participate in/enjoy a kinky community

  • prioritize erotic photography work

am I missing?)

(what's on yours?)

(where is our overlap?)


let's collaborate

tell me about yourself (our overlap + links to socials & following) here.


let me help you get your content started


tell me about yourself (hopes, goals, dreams) here.


let me support your growth


tell me about yourself (intimate desires) here.


who are primarily interested in hitting on me


tell me about yourself (wildest fantasies, please) here.

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