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Ask yourself, a date, a lover, a colleague, a friend, or a partner. Share an answer or another creative question here.

Rate yourself on a FUN-O-METER from 1 (low) to 10 (high) and tell us why you picked that number.

When it’s time for play, what do you do, and who do you do it with?

What were your favorite ways to play growing up?

Do you identify as an introvert, extrovert or centrovert ambivert? Tell us when you feel drained by people, and when do you feel energized by them.

How do you like to play with:







How—if at all—do you like to plan your fun and playtime?

Are you more likely to be an initiator or receiver of invitations?

What is an example of an invitation that you are most likely to say an immediate, unhesitating YES to?

What types of invitations make you cringe but you say yes to anyway?

What types of invitations are a thank-you-no-please?

What sort of parties or events are fun for you?

What specific elements or experiences leave you feeling satisfied from an outing?

Do you prefer to be:

the host of the party

life of the party

supportive guest

person who stays by the snacks and drinks the whole time

or something else?

Have you had an experience where something that was supposed to be fun and playful ended up being very painful?

Does play factor into your love life (or does love factor into your play life)?

In the next decade, what are three funventures or playsplorations you want to cross off your bucket list?

If you were visited by the most playful past version of yourself right now, how old are they and what advice would they give current you?


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