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Sharing stories to lead better-laid lives.

Sex Stories is a podcast of sexy desires, delights, disappointments, discoveries and dreams, shared in story form.


In Season 4, the focus is professional—what do the experts whose job it is to think about sex all day think about societal erotic norms? 


Guests  offer a window into their respective careers in the sex industry, sharing the wisdom and insights they've accumulated along the way to help us understand the economies built upon lust.


Seasons 1-3 are mostly anonymous guests sharing their most personal details, giving listeners a chance to safely fantasize about future bucket list-worthy sexsplorations. Guess what? Trust and safety are super hot, and talking about it ahead of time is a turn-on.


These respectful, casually explicit hyper-personal interviews offer a hot mix of erotic inspiration, practical how-to’s, and insight into other peoples’ feelings about sex.


Prioritize pleasure. Fuck shame and judgement. Connect with your kinks, learn how weird you aren’t, and find out just now normal loving anal is.


Let’s lead better-laid lives.


Let’s create a world where taking care of each other is the norm.


Let’s share sex stories.

professional sex stories questions

SSP Pro Q's

In as much detail as you feel comfy, please share:



  • How do you define sexy?

  • Tell us about your work! How are you making the world a sexier, more loving place?

  • Do you identify as a sex worker?

  • Can you describe some of the reactions you get when people learn what you do?

  • What's your professional origin story?

  • Where would you like to see your work lead?



  • What are the sexiest and least sexy parts your work?

  • What’s the silliest shame-related experience you’ve encountered because of your work?

  • How has your sex-related work influenced or informed your own sex life?

  • What do your work like and personal life boundaries look like?

  • What’s thecommunication in your workplace like?

  • How do you navigate boundaries with colleagues, clients and/or subcontractors?


culture & the future

  • What have you learned about social and cultural norms through your work that has surprised you?

  • Are there any sex-related norms you’d like to shift?

  • Since you began this work, have you noticed any sex-related trends in your area of industry? What about in your own business practices or personal life?

  • What do you want to celebrate most about your work, right now?

  • What are you excited to explore or grow in your work going forward?

  • If you could wave a magic wand and teach everyone something about sex, what would it be?


    • Imagine there is a creative space that is part sex ed museum, part erotic art gallery, has a secret, members-only dungeon down below (that doubles as a coworking space/set for erotic performers and models during the week) and the whole place has educational workshops on weeknights and afternoon delight play parties on the weekends.

    • You have been tasked with designing one of the rooms.

    • It can represent you, promote your brand, be an experience you want people to have that reflects your values, and you have an unlimited budget.

    • What is it like?

personal sex stories questions

SSP Personal Q's

In as much detail as you feel comfy, please share:



  • If you had to rate yourself on a sexual shame-o-meter from 1 (shameless!) to 10 (so full of shame), where do you fall right now?

  • What's your sex life like right now? What’s your favorite part?

  • What is “sexy” to you?

  • When do you feel sexiest?

  • What is “sex” for you? 

  • Did you ever get a helpful sexual education, an explicit health and safety talk or lesson in consent growing up?

  • As an adult, can you give us an example of one time you said a very clear YES to something sexy that led to an awesome experience?

  • What happens to your shame-o-meter when it's time to talk to your partner about safer sex? 

  • What’s your ideal way for a safer sex convo to unfold?



  • What is your first sex-related memory?

  • What were your early understandings of what sex was, or what it meant? When do you feel like you really understood what it was?

  • How did the culture, religion, family values or friendships you grew up with influence your relationship to sex?

  • What is the first sexual experience you remember having?

  • When and how did you start touching yourself?

  • When did you start touching other people?

  • What formative experiences stand out in terms of kissing, touching, oral, penetration, or any other forms of erotic energy that were meaningful to your sexual self?

  • What are your kinks? How did you discover them? What are your safety and negotiation practices like?



  • How and how often do you touch yourself now? 

  • How have your self-pleasure patterns changed over the years, if at all?

  • What are some of your favorite ways to use your hands on a partner?

  • What are your favorite ways to experience your partner’s hands?

  • What sex toys do you use?


ORAL, penetration & orgasm

  • What body parts do you enjoy performing oral on? What are your moves?

  • What body parts do you enjoy receiving oral on? What are favorite moves from your partner?

  • What kinds of penetration do you enjoy giving and/or receiving?

  • What are ways you love and/or things you like or need to cum?



  • What are your biggest turn-ons? 

  • Biggest turn-offs?

  • What else does your body love?

  • When do you feel most in touch with your body?

  • What makes you feel desired and/or appreciated, sexually?



  • What are your experiences with or fantasies about:

  • sexting?

  • sending or receiving nudes?

  • watching porn?

  • homemade porn?

  • group sex?

  • sex parties?

  • sex clubs?

  • sex dreams?



  • What other fantasies or desires have you explored, or do you want to explore?

  • Future hopes/goals/dreams for your sex life?

  • Any other sexual disasters, triumphs, weird, unexpected, awkward, amazing things you can think of?

  • Any other thoughts on sex in general or your own sex life?

  • If you could go back and give a younger you sex advice, what age(s) would you pick and what would you say?



(answers in the Private Gallery or on Patreon)

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